It’s the thing we dread talking about, but probably one of the most common questions we get from new hosts: What if it doesn’t work out?

Struggle shapes growth. Even better--it also improves our wellbeing. Homestay is, at its heart, an education in hope.

When you were growing up, did you have a wisdom keeper?

One of the core messages in my book is the idea that hosting takes work. Hosts have to learn how to foster great relationships, but it’s worth it.

What do you do if you’ve been hurt and an apology isn’t forthcoming? Have you considered asking for an apology? 

In your families and workplaces, do you talk about discomfort as the place where learning happens? 

How do you approach the holidays with a student in your home? What new traditions have you adopted? 

Travel, like homestay, gives us perspective on all kinds of things. It also reminds us what we can't take for granted...

What are cultural differences you’ve noticed in your homes or workplaces, and how do you talk about them?

How do you approach your students when you want to influence their choices in a positive direction?